Had a qualified pole barn and Barndo builder inspect today. He dug out a section and found what I found. Without excavation we can't know anything. He mentioned he sets each pole at 3 feet deep on top of 80 pounds of concrete and rebar. That's the typical footer. His claim is that in 40 years of building barns like this, he's only had pole settling once and it was due to lack of required soil compaction and testing in 4 feet of fill. It seems his site prep guys lied.
His opinion was that the soil is probably fine, but the poles were not set properly. He's bringing back pics to his engineers. He did not offer any remedy.
Thanks for sharing the update. Seems the challenge is go with your heart, or go with risk aversion.
A lot harder at 60 years of age to recover if things don't work as desired, then at age 30 or 40.
A question to ponder... what is more important, the physical beauty, or seamless movement in and around a home.
I would have to ponder, if these structural beams are so wrong, what else is that wrong that can't be inspected. Septic field, well, water distribution, house waste water drainage, the list goes on forever.
It is reasonable to assume, if the structural beams were done so wrong, many other things are likely "done so wrong".
You got plenty of time , you have a home. A course of action to consider is to find a home "done right".
You are not desperate, you don't have kids that need to attend school, you don't have a local job with no place to live. You have all the right cards to play in your hand.
Patience is the key is so many things.