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Had a 2001 GTP, lost the tranny at the track. 190,000. Shift kit, tune, smaller supercharger pulley, exhuast, and headers. Fluid and filter changes every 30,000 miles.
1991 S-10, when I sold it, it had 270,000 miles. Was the original 700R4 with an aux cooler.
1991 Corvette. I killed it at 120,000. It just had a rough life. Lots of 1/4 mile passes, no aftermarket cooler, 1 flush.
1989 GMC 1 ton TH400 non lock up converter, they make a lot of heat. 180,000 miles, 90 percent towing. Original tranny still going with a buddy. 30,000 mile pan drops and filter changes.
02 Jetta TDI. 2 automatic transmissions in the first 80,000 miles. That car hated me.
All the other cars have been fine. Normal fluid changes and normal lifes. I was pro-active on the Buick and had the transmission built the way I wanted it for the mods I have installed.
I have killed a T56 at the track and racing is tough on a clutch.
If you get lots of miles on clutch you are not making enough power to kill it.