Spot on.That’s because people who complain are vocal. People who are satisfied don’t post positive stories about how much they like living with an HOA. This leads to a false impression.
I don’t recall developers boasting to come buy here - “there’s no HOA!”.
The ones that don’t like HOA’s for some reason, feel compelled to want to rewrite rules to fit their lifestyle and opinions. That’s very interesting if you think about it, the people who choose to live in HOA are blasted by negative comments of the people who don’t want you to live there.