Had melanoma last year. Have a 4-inch scar on my upper left chest from the two hour surgery and 58 inner and outer stitches it took to remove it all after the initial biopsy. Luckily it only made it 1mm into my dermis and didnt get into the hypodermis. I go to a dermatologist every 90 days because of my history, and my family's history. Killed my aunt... my dad had it, two of my sisters have had it, and my older brother had it. Thats a lot of people in one family to have melanoma. (Ours is a genetic issue, not a sun exposure issue.)
I have so many scars from biopsies (50+) that my chest and back look like the surface of the moon. You couldnt pay me enough money and there isnt enough beer on this planet to make me take my shirt off in public.
Its frightening, but melanoma and other skins cancers are easily treatable if found early. Get set up with a dermatologist you like and go early and often, three months six months yearly whatever, but get up off your butt and GO.
Bob Is Not The Skin Cancer Guy, but hopefully this thread stays open long enough to maybe get through to even a few here to get prompted to get their skin checked.