Trying to keep this question "classy", but does removing the prostate affect your love life or does everything usually return to normal after some time?
Three is no one size that fits all answers to these questions. It's impossible because there is no one answer, everyone is different.
Best first search on the internet, educate, then talk with doctor.
I have had 3 MRIs and 3 Biopies so far, still no cancer. First high PSA came in over 4 around 6 years ago. MRI and Biopsy came back clean. I also had at the time experimental urine test, it said I most likely had cancer. I didnt.
Since then PSA has gone to 6 and 8 or 10 and had another two MRIs and Biopsies in the last 2 to 4 years, still no cancer now to 15 to 21 (infection a while ago) back down to 15 and now at 10 taking the drug Finasteride which shrinks the gland so its holding at 10 so far.
Im in a new home, new doctor, I like the guy, saw him twice so far. I made clear I want to stay proactive. So as soon as he thinks so I have no problem with another MRI and Bioposy. I actually want them done now, its getting close to two years since the last one was done.
First biopsy back in 2017ish they put me to sleep, my newer at the time doctor (same location) did two more years later (about 1 to 2 years apart while I was awake.
Not pleasant AT ALL but its over so fast I prefer to be awake, literally takes less than 15 minutes for the procedure and your out of there.
So grin and bear it, 15 minutes your done. I wont say its a big nothing, it sucks but 15 minutes or less and its over with. Well worth being able to walk in and out of the place in one hour.
AS far as sex life, anything involving the gland can disrupt it. Drugs or surgery. Everyone is different and everyone has different side effects to a degree, even drugs. Ive been lucky and posting this so people know, everyone is different so there is a chance at least with drugs you wont be affected. Im doing well with the Finasteride and no change in my sex life. There was another drug Tamsulosin that I wasnt thrilled about, it didnt do much. Taking the Finasteride was good but results vary among everyone from what I understand.
Im also getting older but as far as I know I have a normal sex life, my wife seems to think way more then other people my age. *LOL*
I think, I could be wrong, dont dwell on it. I rarely type this much about it but if it helps to let others know, there are no hard and fast rules, be positive and it may work out that way.
Good luck to those concerned, Prostrate Cancer Diagnosis sucks. There are no hard and fast rules. I think Biopsy is the gold standard and even then there could be a small cancer missed until it gets bigger.
PS I am not a doctor, these are my impressions and personal experiences.