It's too bad that 20W-50 remains available, since there is this fascination with using it in engines that really don't need it.
According to Doug Hillary, the 20W-50 grade was developed specifically to address oil shearing in the original shared-sump Mini.
It was later adopted as the grail for warm weather by Mercedes and BMW. I drank this Kool-Aide with my last Mecedes, running GTX 20W-50 summers.
Alas, the 20W-50 grade is not required in almost any engine that isn't worn down to beaterhood.
A 10W-40 should be all you'd need, and given the few miles you put on your car, an expensive synthetic would be a waste, and will protect the engine no better.
You might try what I've found to work in my old BMW.
Nextgen Maxlife 10W-40 works very well in the old BMW, and I have a UOA to back that up.
It would probably also work well in your Alfa.
The twin-cam Alfa four was an ancient design when your car was new.
Alfa surely didn't recommend a 20W-50 when the engine was new tech.
You have a very late example of that generation Alfa.
They are very pretty cars and are not bad to drive.
I've always wanted one like yours, and while the early boat-tail Spider is gorgeous, yours is very attractive as well.