Well I'm a willld and crazzzzy guy... just can't help jumping to those wild conclusions sometimes.
I'm in no way claiming to be some kind of oil expert. Just pitching in my 2 cents, however appreciated or worthless my ramblings might be.
In order to prove or disprove my non-scientific theory, we would have to...
take a group of, say, 30 identical engines in identical vehicles, using 5W30 in 10 of 'em, 10W30 in 10 of 'em, and 5W20 in the other 10.... then run them all exactly the same (same climate, same load, same driving route, same speeds, same number of 1/4 mile runs, etc etc) for 150K or 200K miles.... following the same OCI's and using the same filters and same brand of oil in all the engines...
then....
tear 'em all apart at 150K or 200K miles and send the blocks and all the internals off to a top-notch lab to be evaluated...
and then, just then.... maybe we'd be able to come a scientific conclusion, with hard evidence to back us up.
Any volunteers?