That's a great question, I wish I knew the answer. As I said with the first one there were no codes thrown at all even took it to Chevy dealer and they said that was a first. I used Street Smart Transmissions and they shipped out the reman ( I did this mainly for the warranty, local shops would only give 12 month, 12k miles). This time it didn't throw codes at first After about 10 miles on my way back over the dam the truck got stuck in gear, lights went on for stabilitrack, traction control, and the check engine light, and I couldn't go over about 35 mph. Turned off vehicle, let it rest for an hour and turned it back on got no 5th or 6th gear but it would go, since I was 200+ miles from home I babied it home. My ODB couldn't read the code, but took it to my mechanic and he was able to pull a code, said I needed a rebuild.
I just ordered my second from Street Smart (they gave me great deal since I was only out of warranty about 5 months). The local shops here quoted me from $2,700 - $3,800 and were only offering 1-2 year warranties. The one shop that offered a 3 year was only willing to give 30,000 miles.... wtheck. Unfortunately since I have to send the core off, I won't find out what killed it.
I have a lead foot so maybe that is why. I've had a couple manual cars in which I went through clutches pretty quickly, but those are easy repairs. Had an expedition for about 3 years and sold it. This the longest I have had one vehicle, so maybe I'm one of those that can tear through a transmission and this is the first time I've had a vehicle long enough to do so. Rest assured though I will sell this one before I get to the end of the 3 year warranty on this transmission