Start up wear is NOT controlled by oil pressure. It is controlled by the tribochemical barrier that exists. Proven and studied at length in SAE 2007-01-4133. Buy it and read it.
I do not think that "nobody else" knows how a lube system works.
I do know that
some (many) people don't truly understand the entire relationship between film barriers, wedge barriers and pressure control and how they interact to control wear, although those people
think they do...
At start up, there is no pressure for a very short period of time. That time is dependent upon many factors, including viscosity, ADBV presence and viability, circuit pathway length, etc. Once pressure is established, the direct lubricated parts run on a film of hydro-dynamic wedge, but that is ONLY true of pressure-fed parts. There are also many parts that are NOT pressure-fed, such as cylinder walls and ring pack.
All parts, both pressure-fed and non-pressure-fed, ride on a film of oxidized lube called a tribo-chemical barrier. That film barrier is ALWAYS present and actually grows and thickens with age. The only time this film is undesirably altered is the front end of an OCI where the anti-agglomerate and detergent package is fresh and actually destroys that barrier, and it has to build back up again. This barrier, when present, allows wear to drop to near-zero in most wear metals, and the wear rates will actually drop significantly as the OCI matures.
So, when a very cold engine starts with very cold lube, it is true that the pressure-fed components are without the wedge for a second or two. But it is completely false to state that there is no protection; the tribo-chemical barrier is what avoids wear at start up, not the pressure. Buy and read the SAE study.
And, as discussed in previous posts, just because the oil pump may relieve, it's not an indication that the oil pathways are completely void of pressure. There is plenty of pressure available because only excess pressure is bled off, not all of it. The PRV is essentially a controlled leak; it's not a total dump of all pressure at the expense of the downstream engine.
So, it goes like this:
1) first few seconds all parts ride on the tribo-chemical film barrier
2) pressure develops; some is diverted via relief, but plenty gets to oil circuits
3) pressure-fed parts ride up above the chemical film barrier onto a wedge barrier, while non-pressure-fed parts continue to ride on the film until splash lubrication and/or airborne mist will make it's way to those parts.
Yes, sir, I've "thought about it". And I've read about it. And I've run macro data analysis all over and around it, using my database of more than 10,000 UOAs. In my studies, I've looked at engines, in all manner of applications, in all kinds of environments, with all kinds of lubes. I can say with certainty that wear control at start up is a matter of the oxidized film barrier, not pressure.
I offer these to support my position:
http://papers.sae.org/2007-01-4133/
http://www.bobistheoilguy.com/used-oil-analysis-how-to-decide-what-is-normal/
http://www.cdxetextbook.com/engines/lube/sysComp/oilpressurevalve.html
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