Originally Posted By: demarpaint
Originally Posted By: uc50ic4more
Also, people define "loser" differently.
I'll make my definition of loser brief. Lets just call him an acquaintance, since I can't call him a friend. Married with three children, loses $180K/year job, gets a divorce, and loses his house because he likes to get high. He got fired, his wife had enough of his [censored] and filed for a divorce. To me that's a loser. He's working again for $50K/year last I heard, I'm not sure if he gave the weed up though. I have other definitions, but that one should some up what I consider a loser.
I sure HOPE you don't call him a friend; as sitting by (being a winner, I presume) while this person made such terrible decisions about his life would make you no friend at all. It sounds like this person needed some help from a friend or loved one and got none; and now there is a broken family out there being broken while we talk about "losers" on the internet.
I do not understand what this has to do with marijuana: Did this person use legal marijuana or did it being legal or illegal serve *absolutely no purpose* except to marginalize this person as a criminal, in addition to being someone in desperate need of help? Perhaps instead of spending zillions of dollars to maintain a police state and a failed "war on drugs", we should steer those resources towards helping those who need help because they use food, gambling, deceit, drugs, alcohol, money and infinite other things to ruin their own lives and the lives of those around them. Making laws prohibiting the methods by which people destroy themselves simply leaves a nation full of criminals destroying themselves. How's that working out?
This reminds me of a conversation I had with my neighbour, whose son has a problem with crack. My neighbour, out of his frustration and pain at seeing his son do this to himself, wanted to kill the crack dealer. But the harder, but more correct view, held that if his son is destroying himself and his crack dealer was murdered, all that would be left is a son who wants to destroy himself. First, the problem does not get solved, or even addressed at all! Secondly, he'll simply find another crack dealer. Addressing the real source of our problems is a long and painful affair, so I guess it is natural for us to simply want to write some laws and consider the issue over and done with, comfortably separated from the "losers".