For me it's about a choice between an engaging driving experience and an isolated one. As I've gotten older, I've realized I want a more and more isolated experience meaning I don't really want to hear much or know much about what the car is doing while it is getting me there. I just want it to get me there safely and not hit someone else (or be hit) during the process. I simply don't have the energy anymore to really be interested in how the car is getting me there. I am probably taking it to a total extreme but I am not really interested in even knowing if the automatic downshifts on a hill or not. So, an automatic simply makes driving a lot easier and I can focus my energy on other traffic, satellite radio or listening to my wife. A manual would involve a lot more work. Further diminishing the need for manuals are new automatics which allow you to manually shift--I occasionally used that feature in the mountains recently to avoid heating up or glazing the brakes during long downhill grades. My 2 cents worth.