Patman
Staff member
Try some different sites where you can message them first too. I met my ex wife on Plenty of Fish in 2011, I messaged her first and she immediately responded and we spent ten wonderful years together and even though we are not a couple anymore we are still best friends (and we have a business together which we actually started after we split). I have also had good luck meeting women on Facebook dating and I met my girlfriend on Ok Cupid (she messaged me first) Don’t give up, I was in your position when I was your age and I badly wanted a girlfriend and I have ended up having a few relationships with some really amazing women and I also have a son who is your age too.Once I’m able to message I usually message first. In order to message you have to match with each other first.