What are you doing right now?

Just left the gas station. Nice day off today for snow. I love free money lol. They let us know at 7:27am that we were closed and I go in at 7:30 so I was in the parking lot but then the roads started getting bad so I hurried my butt back home. They are all going to be ice in the morning so hopefully we will at least open late.
 
I’m chilling I cracked open a can of Mtn Dew since the gas station is out of fountain Mtn Dew. Well me and the girl won’t work. She kept starting arguments over nothing and wanting me to change things about the person I am so we won’t work. She is like you’d be required to sell all of your DVDs to move in with me and a list of other things. I’m like nope see ya. That wasn’t the only thing but it was a big factor. I hope someone else comes along. I’m not willing to change anything about my character or who I am for someone. I told my parents about the date the other night and then today I decided to tell them it was off and not going to work. They said I looked very sad and depressed and so we sat down and talked for about 30 minutes about relationships and feelings and they reassured me that it is ok to feel the way I do and my dad gave me lots of good dating advice and both of them said that I can talk to them about anything without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. I hope one day the empty spot in my heart will be filled. I feel very lonely especially here lately. There are just certain things I want to talk about but I don’t want to talk about them to my parents. One thing they both said is remember the girl is a person too and has feelings the same way that I do so both of us might be just as shy as the other. I appreciate them talking to me about this and being there for me.
 
AutoMechanic said:
Well me and the girl won’t work. She kept starting arguments over nothing and wanting me to change things about the person I am so we won’t work. She is like you’d be required to sell all of your DVDs to move in with me and a list of other things.
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If she is going to college like you mentioned, there should be plenty of guys there she can try to manipulate and control, lol.
 
I've been driving really long hours the past few days.
Today was an easy day, only drove 9.5 hours, am home now, watching TV and surfing the net.
Hungry, but too tired to cook anything.
Maybe in a while I'll get up and make myself something to eat.
 
Just returned from a business trip to San Antonio. Worked 1/2 day and drove home the other half. It went so well I'm back a day early. It was so windy my 26mpg F150 was only getting about 19.
 
AutoMechanic said:
I’m chilling I cracked open a can of Mtn Dew since the gas station is out of fountain Mtn Dew. Well me and the girl won’t work. She kept starting arguments over nothing and wanting me to change things about the person I am so we won’t work. She is like you’d be required to sell all of your DVDs to move in with me and a list of other things. I’m like nope see ya. That wasn’t the only thing but it was a big factor. I hope someone else comes along. I’m not willing to change anything about my character or who I am for someone. I told my parents about the date the other night and then today I decided to tell them it was off and not going to work. They said I looked very sad and depressed and so we sat down and talked for about 30 minutes about relationships and feelings and they reassured me that it is ok to feel the way I do and my dad gave me lots of good dating advice and both of them said that I can talk to them about anything without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. I hope one day the empty spot in my heart will be filled. I feel very lonely especially here lately. There are just certain things I want to talk about but I don’t want to talk about them to my parents. One thing they both said is remember the girl is a person too and has feelings the same way that I do so both of us might be just as shy as the other. I appreciate them talking to me about this and being there for me.
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About the time you get pretty happy being single and doing your own thing, they'll be lined up to see you.
 
riff1006 said:
About the time you get pretty happy being single and doing your own thing, they'll be lined up to see you.
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I need to. I just wish I had people to hang out with especially a girl. If I had a more fuel efficient car I might be ok with doing solo stuff I just don’t know what I could do solo to meet women though.
 
AutoMechanic said:
I need to. I just wish I had people to hang out with especially a girl. If I had a more fuel efficient car I might be ok with doing solo stuff I just don’t know what I could do solo to meet women though.
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Wait a minute, you live at your parents, are a full time employed mechanic, and worried about a little gas money. What am I missing here? A little driving around in a car, even a car not great on gas, isn't that expensive.
 
AutoMechanic said:
I need to. I just wish I had people to hang out with especially a girl. If I had a more fuel efficient car I might be ok with doing solo stuff I just don’t know what I could do solo to meet women though.
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Get a part time job at hospital and many mature acting women to talk to.

When I worked in hospitals….. 90% of the employees I talked to were women.
 
TimeFlies said:
Wait a minute, you live at your parents, are a full time employed mechanic, and worried about a little gas money. What am I missing here? A little driving around in a car, even a car not great on gas, isn't that expensive.
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Well when you’re hourly with no type of bonus or incentives or commissions it sucks being a mechanic. And I have bills to pay that I didn’t agree to pay they all of a sudden got dropped on me this month because of dad choosing not to work. And my bills too which is tools, streaming services and gas and my portion of the car insurance. Right now a week after pay day I have $28 in my bank account not counting savings but I don’t want to touch my savings unless it’s an absolute emergency. And haven’t bought anything extra and don’t get paid for another week. I also lose about $500 to taxes and retirement and from here on out as long as I live at home I have to either pay water or electric or power bill which I didn’t agree too pay either but that’s what my parents want now. At least they pay their cable and our phones because those are the most expensive.
 
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