You can't - that's the crux of the issue. As you're aware, AT fluid composition is arguably very complex (due to the FM properties) and any changes to the "recipe" can affect performance. It can sometimes work fine in one application and not the other due to application differences in TCM programming.
If you're buying a MV ATF, you better trust the blender's marketing....and hope they've done some testing of their finished product. Most of these blenders have done very limited testing, if at all.
I personally stick to buying ATF's from the dealer and just change them more frequently.