Gun oil is also toxic. Some brands more than others. The sprays are worst.1) The right oil for the right application.
2) A gun is not an automobile engine. As far as I know.
3) Auto mechanics wear gloves because fluids like motor oil are toxic.
4) A lot of American gun people can't wait to come up with a way to "save money." Here's an idea: Don't buy a gun.
Gun cleaning solvents are very toxic. The sprays are worst.
I avoid getting gun oil, gun solvent, and motor oil on my hands. I wear disposable nitrile automotive repair gloves and apply oil using a small brush or cotton patch. During cleaning, I apply solvent using a different small brush or a cotton patch. I should wear a gas mask when using cleaning solvents.
All these things are toxic. All should be used with caution. The only nontoxic options I know of are sewing machine oils (low toxicity),but food grade mineral oil (non toxic) or food grade silicon lube (non toxic).
That said, no body is smearing these things on themselves (if wearing gloves) and no one is eating them. Smelling them yes, which should be a concern with some gun lubes and all cleaning solvents.
Also dry spray lube (especially teflon) is nasty poisonous.