You are misapplying Molakule's statement. Transferring heat more effectively actually slows engine warmup because because a smaller delta in temperature will move the heat outside the engine at the same rate.One of those sources is a fellow BITOG-er @MolaKule who I believe is very knowledgable about oils.
https://bobistheoilguy.com/forums/threads/which-transfers-heat-better-thick-or-thin-oil.10413/
Again, heat transfer within the engine and warmup aren't the same thing. It's the difference between the quantity of water you have and the size of the bucket used to move it.
Surely you agree that thinner oils cool better (higher heat flow because of more flow and not enough offset in specific heat capacity from lower density) when hot?
So if one agrees that thinner oils cool better when hot (and they do) then it MUST be the case that they cool better when cold also. And this-- combined with lower parasitic drag-- causes the engine to warm up slower, not faster.
Don't confuse the location of the heat with the total quantity of heat.
Go back to thermo, draw a bounding box around the engine and think of it that way. One one side of your energy balance equation you have energy consumed (shaft work, pumping work) and on the other you have all the energy inputs: chemical energy, kinetic, etc.
With that perspective, it should be quite clear that a thicker oil's higher shaft work dissipates more energy, burns more fuel, generates more heat, and causes the engine to warm faster.