The most "confident" outcome would be "get mating faces 0.60" apart, then give an extra 1/2 turn...or whatever their robots do at the factory...seating torque + rotation
Feel is subjective, as per OP, there's a number of points to pass through that "feel" different, and then the lubrication status of the threads affects the clamping tension give or take a significant percentage of torque applied.
Crush washers and torque aren't complimentary, but a drain plug, crush washer, and leakage aren't a structural decision, nor a flight risk.
I've seen perfectly sealed sumps with stripped threads and silastic..then had to retap them and find a fibre washer to suit.
Feel is subjective, as per OP, there's a number of points to pass through that "feel" different, and then the lubrication status of the threads affects the clamping tension give or take a significant percentage of torque applied.
Crush washers and torque aren't complimentary, but a drain plug, crush washer, and leakage aren't a structural decision, nor a flight risk.
I've seen perfectly sealed sumps with stripped threads and silastic..then had to retap them and find a fibre washer to suit.