I'm 67 and finding that many times when I think people should acknowledge a gift, it just doesn't happen.
My good friend's (I was his Best Man) daughter got married a couple of years ago but it was in Georgia and I responded that I could not attend. I did send a check to the bride and groom for $200.00 which I thought was sufficient for a wedding I wasn't going to. Since I didn't know where they would be living, I sent it to my buddy's house so he knew I sent "something". The check was cashed but no thank you note was ever sent.
I attended my boss' son's pre-wedding dance party not too long ago. They are Indian and there are many events surrounding the actual wedding. For this dance party ceremony, I also gave $200.00. No thank you, again. The wedding was in Italy so for that, I wasn't even invited, thankfully.
I just recently finished 40 sessions of Physical Therapy for a knee injury. At the conclusion, I gave the therapist/co-owner a card on my way out the door for the last time. In the card were four Amazon gift cards for $50.00 each; one for the therapist, one for the front desk person, and one each for the two gym aids that set up the exercise equipment. Once again, no thank you from anyone.
My other good friend's (he was my Best Man) daughter had a baby 3 weeks ago. For her, I got two baby outfits, a stuffed animal toy carefully chosen with no buttons or other attachments that could come loose and pose a choking hazard. I also put a $100.00 Amazon gift card in the actual card.
So far, no thanks from her either but in her case, there's still time.
While I don't do these things solely to receive a "thank you", I do feel it is rude when people don't acknowledge the gift, or the time spent getting the gift. Am I expecting too much? I don't think so. All these people have my cell number and/or email. They don't have to go to Hallmark and buy a card for $5.99 just to say thanks, a simple text or email costs nothing and takes perhaps 2 minutes, tops!
Oh well, I'm done ranting. Thanks for listening!
My good friend's (I was his Best Man) daughter got married a couple of years ago but it was in Georgia and I responded that I could not attend. I did send a check to the bride and groom for $200.00 which I thought was sufficient for a wedding I wasn't going to. Since I didn't know where they would be living, I sent it to my buddy's house so he knew I sent "something". The check was cashed but no thank you note was ever sent.
I attended my boss' son's pre-wedding dance party not too long ago. They are Indian and there are many events surrounding the actual wedding. For this dance party ceremony, I also gave $200.00. No thank you, again. The wedding was in Italy so for that, I wasn't even invited, thankfully.
I just recently finished 40 sessions of Physical Therapy for a knee injury. At the conclusion, I gave the therapist/co-owner a card on my way out the door for the last time. In the card were four Amazon gift cards for $50.00 each; one for the therapist, one for the front desk person, and one each for the two gym aids that set up the exercise equipment. Once again, no thank you from anyone.
My other good friend's (he was my Best Man) daughter had a baby 3 weeks ago. For her, I got two baby outfits, a stuffed animal toy carefully chosen with no buttons or other attachments that could come loose and pose a choking hazard. I also put a $100.00 Amazon gift card in the actual card.
So far, no thanks from her either but in her case, there's still time.
While I don't do these things solely to receive a "thank you", I do feel it is rude when people don't acknowledge the gift, or the time spent getting the gift. Am I expecting too much? I don't think so. All these people have my cell number and/or email. They don't have to go to Hallmark and buy a card for $5.99 just to say thanks, a simple text or email costs nothing and takes perhaps 2 minutes, tops!
Oh well, I'm done ranting. Thanks for listening!