I've never really noticed enough difference in premium fuel over regular fuel.
When gas was .10c-.20c more a gallon for premium gas over regular gas, I would try it for several tankfuls to see if there was any significant benefit for me, my car, my driving style & climate. But now with premium fuel(in my area) being over $1/gallon more, that's $15-$20 more per tankful, every tankful and I'm not spending that every week for no benefit that I can measure. If I had something that required premium, it'd be a different story.
When premium gas was maybe 7% more money per tankful, I might get 6%-8% better fuel economy and maybe(only maybe) better throttle response! So there was a close to break even factor.
Now, premium is 35% more money and there is no way that I am going to achieve 35% better fuel economy nor anywhere close to that in performance/throttle response.
This is my take on it.
If I want a fast car, I'll buy a fast car. If I want my fast car to go faster, I'll buy a faster car.
If I want my car to get better fuel economy, I'll buy an economical car.
If I want my car to handle better, I'm not going to change my tires, shocks, sway bars etc., I'm going to buy a car that can handle.