Dead is forever and is closer than we usually consider it to be.
So..... why worry??!!!!
What's that sage's saying??? Sumpthin' akin to:
No one ever died wishing they had spent more time at the office.
Live life.... smell a rose.... pick yer' nose. Walk around the grocery store leaving a trai of smelly farts.
Help an old lady carry a package. Hold the door open for 15 people!!!!
Pay for the food for the person in the car behind you at the fast food drive-through.
Pick up the trash alongside your street, both sides.
Write your politician and either compliment them or, call them a traitor; depending upon thine circumstances.
Write the local cops and fire firghters, tell them you appreciate their efforts.
Mow your neighbor's lawn for the heck of it.
There's a lotta' things you can do besides the same old monotonous routine to spice up thine life.
Of course, not having kidlings dependent upon ye gives much more freedom. Until you kick them out the door, ye are basically stuck. Once they're gone..... live it up!!!!!