Selling '08 Civic to Family Member (Repairs???)
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AZjeff
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The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
Bottom line OP is you know your relatives and you know your comfort level. A battery is $100. What is the tensioner repair at the indie, $400-500? These are the big tickets, so you do them and net $2000 for the car and it's as good to go as you can make it or they buy it for $2500 possibly needing $500 in service in the future.
As mentioned above, any car is going to need registered and insurance and maintenance, can they afford it?
Bottom line OP is you know your relatives and you know your comfort level. A battery is $100. What is the tensioner repair at the indie, $400-500? These are the big tickets, so you do them and net $2000 for the car and it's as good to go as you can make it or they buy it for $2500 possibly needing $500 in service in the future.
As mentioned above, any car is going to need registered and insurance and maintenance, can they afford it?
Originally Posted By: AZjeff
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
I'm trying to throw him a lifeline so that he could find a way out of that trap!
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
I'm trying to throw him a lifeline so that he could find a way out of that trap!
gathermewool
Site Donor 2023
I want to clarify that this car is in really good shape. I'm a nuke and tend to nuke things out, meaning I over-think, am overly critical and track and trend the condition of things more so than many people I know who aren't nukes....well, that doesn't include your average BITOG'er!
Some more positives not listed above:
1. Great suspension: The car handles and steers really well. It provides great feed back, direct steering and a pretty confident ride for a compact econobox.
2. Great engine: Looking past the great fuel economy, the engine (and vtech) run really well.
3. Good transmission: Shifting is smooth. There's a slight delays when rolling through things like yield signs, where the transmission takes one full second to figure out whether it wants 1st or 2nd gear, but all shifts from stop to highway speeds are smooth. At highway speeds, the shift from 5th to 3rd shift and then back is seamless (cruise control while on the highway always results in a double-downshift, when a preemptive bit of throttle leading to a single downshift would usually suffice.)
4. PM: Coolant, PSF, Oil, brake fluid, ATF, spark plugs are all well within periodicity. The battery, as previously mentioned, would be the only iffy one; however, I have maintained it better than most would (barring the one light-left-on-all-night, dead-battery time).
Some pics:
The bad (and clarification):
1. Tensioner: It rattles mostly at really cold temps, but it's not really that and isn't even noticeable at all on hot days (I did not hear it with my head in the engine compartment while leaving work this afternoon.) The rattle also isn't even 100% diagnosable as the tensioner (using the stethoscope, I'm 70% sure that it's the culprit.)
2. Rough-starts/vibration: The engine start normally 90% of the time. When extremely cold it may have a rougher time starting. The car does not vibrate at all when the engine is cold. It only does so after fully warmed up (i.e., after a highway trip) on hot days, while stopped in drive.
3. Paint: really can't notice, unless you look for it (admittedly pretty obvious, when you do
Other issues (previously not mentioned):
1. Interior lights: the "AC" and "MAX AC" lights, as well as other lights for the radio and HVAC will occasionally go dark, then randomly come back. Most prevalent when cold. Banging on the dash doesn't do anything and the wedge bulbs aren't burned out, since they do come back.
2. Brake pulsing: I had an issue recently with pulsing brakes. Now that I drive longer distance once a month it seems that the pulsing is 100% gone. I'll try to pull the brakes apart and at least lube the slides and exercise the pistons before giving it to them.
3. TAKATA! Got the notice, so I will not give them the car until this is replaced.
Originally Posted By: FermeLaPorte
Here in SoTex you car is easily going by at 5000
It's low to mid-$4k here, though I'm not sure what I'd actually get.
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
That [censored] car will be the sword of Damocles over your head every single waking moment that they own it.
That's genuinely really funny!
Originally Posted By: Kuato
Have had a couple of vehicles bought and sold in the family. Found the best practice is to be brutally honest about everything, and sell it for about 10% off of what the blue book price is. That way you're giving them a family discount, not shooting yourself in the foot financially, and they know everything upfront about the vehicle. It's their choice to buy it or not from family. Also, always explain that the vehicle is as is you're not responsible for what goes wrong after the sale, etc.
Originally Posted By: Kira
Good long thread.
I may have glanced over (missed) a sentence or two but I read it all.
Are these rellies appreciative throughout or will they act like wounded puppies when something goes wrong?
Besides the suggested "brutal honesty" describing the car you have to be "brutally honest" describing these people even though they're related to you. Whether you love 'em or not is immaterial.
Years ago I bought a rattle trap ('72 Corolla De Luxe?) from a friend. There was so much to do repair wise. I never dreamt of the seller being involved one bit.
Be frank with yourself (and us if you care to share). Are these people self-dillusional? Are they comfortable being "victims" and fall into the role easily? Are they stupid? (yes, I asked that)
Why, for example, can't they give your assessment of the car's mechanics to their mechanic and they deal with it?
You're doing them a favor with a vehicle of high value.
Are they poor and truly need a "complete car".
However they're getting along with 1 car might be the better way for them to live (you never thought of that, did you?)
Good luck with this "first world problem". Since you're sweating it so profoundly now I'm going to guess not dealing with hem is the better route.
They will know of everything before buying. I'm not a stereotypical A-type personality, but I'm definitely not B-type. Especially in her family, I'm the blunt one, and they know 100% that I wouldn't take any [censored] and would shut them down on anything other than a familial request for assistance with any issues they might have, which I would provide, regardless of who they bought the vehicle from. They may not be appreciative, but they also would know better than to complain about something divulged prior to purchase, given what I consider an exceptional price.
RE: "you never thought of that, did you?" I'm going to take this as tongue-in-cheek, since it would be a real douchey comment to make, otherwise. I'll respond, though, what the heck: they have a teen and a baby. The SIL works (though only recently, due to the baby and just having gotten her degree) and so does her husband. They have needed a 2nd car for a long time. It's not presumptuous. They are not poor, but, to be negative: the SIL likely wants a brand new car that does NOT make sense, which is why they've so far been smart enough not to act impulsively on the desire for TWO new cars. If they buy this car from us, she will drive the CUV and he will drive this - he needs to commute only a few days per week (teleworks the other days) and around-town driving.
Originally Posted By: AZjeff
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
Bottom line OP is you know your relatives and you know your comfort level. A battery is $100. What is the tensioner repair at the indie, $400-500? These are the big tickets, so you do them and net $2000 for the car and it's as good to go as you can make it or they buy it for $2500 possibly needing $500 in service in the future.
As mentioned above, any car is going to need registered and insurance and maintenance, can they afford it?
Exactly; however, I don't have any issue with people giving their opinion. I'm not asking people to tell me what I should do. I'm asking people for advice, so I can make an informed decision.
The reality is, they're great people. Her family is about as giving and connected as I've ever seen. There's the typical family drama, but their respect for and connection to each other is 100% iron-clad. Again, I have zero concerns about this sale.
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: AZjeff
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
I'm trying to throw him a lifeline so that he could find a way out of that trap!
Haha, I appreciate that, but the sale to them was my idea!
I know it may sound odd, but I feel that the stress and issues would be MUCH less selling to family. I will fill out a bill of sale, which says "AS-IS", wait for their check to cash, then sign over the title. No loans, no stranger-danger, nothing. Bingo, bango, I have zero head-aches and they get a great car.
Finally, we got the car from a family friend after my now-wife, then-gf's car was crushed by a tree during Irene. We surprisingly got more from insurance than we expected and got the '08 Civic for thousands less, because the family friend had moved out-of-country a year prior and did not need the car.
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Thanks again for all of the input and advice!
Some more positives not listed above:
1. Great suspension: The car handles and steers really well. It provides great feed back, direct steering and a pretty confident ride for a compact econobox.
2. Great engine: Looking past the great fuel economy, the engine (and vtech) run really well.
3. Good transmission: Shifting is smooth. There's a slight delays when rolling through things like yield signs, where the transmission takes one full second to figure out whether it wants 1st or 2nd gear, but all shifts from stop to highway speeds are smooth. At highway speeds, the shift from 5th to 3rd shift and then back is seamless (cruise control while on the highway always results in a double-downshift, when a preemptive bit of throttle leading to a single downshift would usually suffice.)
4. PM: Coolant, PSF, Oil, brake fluid, ATF, spark plugs are all well within periodicity. The battery, as previously mentioned, would be the only iffy one; however, I have maintained it better than most would (barring the one light-left-on-all-night, dead-battery time).
Some pics:
The bad (and clarification):
1. Tensioner: It rattles mostly at really cold temps, but it's not really that and isn't even noticeable at all on hot days (I did not hear it with my head in the engine compartment while leaving work this afternoon.) The rattle also isn't even 100% diagnosable as the tensioner (using the stethoscope, I'm 70% sure that it's the culprit.)
2. Rough-starts/vibration: The engine start normally 90% of the time. When extremely cold it may have a rougher time starting. The car does not vibrate at all when the engine is cold. It only does so after fully warmed up (i.e., after a highway trip) on hot days, while stopped in drive.
3. Paint: really can't notice, unless you look for it (admittedly pretty obvious, when you do
Other issues (previously not mentioned):
1. Interior lights: the "AC" and "MAX AC" lights, as well as other lights for the radio and HVAC will occasionally go dark, then randomly come back. Most prevalent when cold. Banging on the dash doesn't do anything and the wedge bulbs aren't burned out, since they do come back.
2. Brake pulsing: I had an issue recently with pulsing brakes. Now that I drive longer distance once a month it seems that the pulsing is 100% gone. I'll try to pull the brakes apart and at least lube the slides and exercise the pistons before giving it to them.
3. TAKATA! Got the notice, so I will not give them the car until this is replaced.
Originally Posted By: FermeLaPorte
Here in SoTex you car is easily going by at 5000
It's low to mid-$4k here, though I'm not sure what I'd actually get.
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
That [censored] car will be the sword of Damocles over your head every single waking moment that they own it.
That's genuinely really funny!
Originally Posted By: Kuato
Have had a couple of vehicles bought and sold in the family. Found the best practice is to be brutally honest about everything, and sell it for about 10% off of what the blue book price is. That way you're giving them a family discount, not shooting yourself in the foot financially, and they know everything upfront about the vehicle. It's their choice to buy it or not from family. Also, always explain that the vehicle is as is you're not responsible for what goes wrong after the sale, etc.
Originally Posted By: Kira
Good long thread.
I may have glanced over (missed) a sentence or two but I read it all.
Are these rellies appreciative throughout or will they act like wounded puppies when something goes wrong?
Besides the suggested "brutal honesty" describing the car you have to be "brutally honest" describing these people even though they're related to you. Whether you love 'em or not is immaterial.
Years ago I bought a rattle trap ('72 Corolla De Luxe?) from a friend. There was so much to do repair wise. I never dreamt of the seller being involved one bit.
Be frank with yourself (and us if you care to share). Are these people self-dillusional? Are they comfortable being "victims" and fall into the role easily? Are they stupid? (yes, I asked that)
Why, for example, can't they give your assessment of the car's mechanics to their mechanic and they deal with it?
You're doing them a favor with a vehicle of high value.
Are they poor and truly need a "complete car".
However they're getting along with 1 car might be the better way for them to live (you never thought of that, did you?)
Good luck with this "first world problem". Since you're sweating it so profoundly now I'm going to guess not dealing with hem is the better route.
They will know of everything before buying. I'm not a stereotypical A-type personality, but I'm definitely not B-type. Especially in her family, I'm the blunt one, and they know 100% that I wouldn't take any [censored] and would shut them down on anything other than a familial request for assistance with any issues they might have, which I would provide, regardless of who they bought the vehicle from. They may not be appreciative, but they also would know better than to complain about something divulged prior to purchase, given what I consider an exceptional price.
RE: "you never thought of that, did you?" I'm going to take this as tongue-in-cheek, since it would be a real douchey comment to make, otherwise. I'll respond, though, what the heck: they have a teen and a baby. The SIL works (though only recently, due to the baby and just having gotten her degree) and so does her husband. They have needed a 2nd car for a long time. It's not presumptuous. They are not poor, but, to be negative: the SIL likely wants a brand new car that does NOT make sense, which is why they've so far been smart enough not to act impulsively on the desire for TWO new cars. If they buy this car from us, she will drive the CUV and he will drive this - he needs to commute only a few days per week (teleworks the other days) and around-town driving.
Originally Posted By: AZjeff
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
Bottom line OP is you know your relatives and you know your comfort level. A battery is $100. What is the tensioner repair at the indie, $400-500? These are the big tickets, so you do them and net $2000 for the car and it's as good to go as you can make it or they buy it for $2500 possibly needing $500 in service in the future.
As mentioned above, any car is going to need registered and insurance and maintenance, can they afford it?
Exactly; however, I don't have any issue with people giving their opinion. I'm not asking people to tell me what I should do. I'm asking people for advice, so I can make an informed decision.
The reality is, they're great people. Her family is about as giving and connected as I've ever seen. There's the typical family drama, but their respect for and connection to each other is 100% iron-clad. Again, I have zero concerns about this sale.
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: AZjeff
The OP isn't looking for advice on whether to sell to SIL, he's already made that decision. But, the fact that he's worried about how much work he should put into a $2500 car so it will be good enough for them kinda says he isn't as comfortable as he thinks.
I'm trying to throw him a lifeline so that he could find a way out of that trap!
Haha, I appreciate that, but the sale to them was my idea!
I know it may sound odd, but I feel that the stress and issues would be MUCH less selling to family. I will fill out a bill of sale, which says "AS-IS", wait for their check to cash, then sign over the title. No loans, no stranger-danger, nothing. Bingo, bango, I have zero head-aches and they get a great car.
Finally, we got the car from a family friend after my now-wife, then-gf's car was crushed by a tree during Irene. We surprisingly got more from insurance than we expected and got the '08 Civic for thousands less, because the family friend had moved out-of-country a year prior and did not need the car.
//
Thanks again for all of the input and advice!
Pcv valve with an oem one even if the old one still rattles. If a new battery the Value one at Walmart is $48. Check date code on top.
Those wheels sure look nice, makes it look like a top of the line Civic. I did that with my 99 Accord LX coupe, added the EX wheels to it. Had a 94 white Civic coupe DX manual with a bunch of accessories added. So let me know if you want to sell to ME for $2500. Not really a stranger since I'm on here.
Those wheels sure look nice, makes it look like a top of the line Civic. I did that with my 99 Accord LX coupe, added the EX wheels to it. Had a 94 white Civic coupe DX manual with a bunch of accessories added. So let me know if you want to sell to ME for $2500. Not really a stranger since I'm on here.
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Many PCV for Hondas have a spring inside so I don't know if it will rattle.
Sell the car 'As Is'
Sell the car 'As Is'
gathermewool
Site Donor 2023
Originally Posted By: SatinSilver
Pcv valve with an oem one even if the old one still rattles. If a new battery the Value one at Walmart is $48. Check date code on top.
Those wheels sure look nice, makes it look like a top of the line Civic. I did that with my 99 Accord LX coupe, added the EX wheels to it. Had a 94 white Civic coupe DX manual with a bunch of accessories added. So let me know if you want to sell to ME for $2500. Not really a stranger since I'm on here.
The LX comes with steelies. I found a set of EX-L same-gen Civic wheels with 5-6/32" tires and TPMS for a few hundred bucks. I had to drive to north-NJ, but the savings made it a no-brainer. The tires that came with the car were 3/32", so I bought some Conti winters and made the steelies my winter set. The winter setup will go with the car, btw.
Originally Posted By: Mr Nice
Many PCV for Hondas have a spring inside so I don't know if it will rattle.
Sell the car 'As Is'
Interesting. The rattle is more along the lines of a heat shield-type, though none of the heat shields is loose.
Pcv valve with an oem one even if the old one still rattles. If a new battery the Value one at Walmart is $48. Check date code on top.
Those wheels sure look nice, makes it look like a top of the line Civic. I did that with my 99 Accord LX coupe, added the EX wheels to it. Had a 94 white Civic coupe DX manual with a bunch of accessories added. So let me know if you want to sell to ME for $2500. Not really a stranger since I'm on here.
The LX comes with steelies. I found a set of EX-L same-gen Civic wheels with 5-6/32" tires and TPMS for a few hundred bucks. I had to drive to north-NJ, but the savings made it a no-brainer. The tires that came with the car were 3/32", so I bought some Conti winters and made the steelies my winter set. The winter setup will go with the car, btw.
Originally Posted By: Mr Nice
Many PCV for Hondas have a spring inside so I don't know if it will rattle.
Sell the car 'As Is'
Interesting. The rattle is more along the lines of a heat shield-type, though none of the heat shields is loose.
Oh, and when you do transfer ownership of the car, hire a lawyer for an hour to come out and draft a bill of sale that indicates that the car is being transferred as is with no written or implied warranties whatsoever and that you are to be heretoforth held harmless for any damages (legalese) that might be of, or related to, the vehicle in question. Get them to hire a lawyer as well so that you have one lawyer and they have one lawyer too. That way, their lawyer will explain the bill of sale, now a bonafide pseudolegal instrument, to them in a way that cannot be misinterpreted, and that the bill of sale would be absolutely bulletproof and unassailable. Sign and notarize the bill of sale, and file a copy with the court clerk and send another copy to SCOTUS as an amicus brief. Finally, take out a full-page advertisement in the local newspaper notifying the public of the existence of this document. Think of it like a trillionaire's prenuptial agreement.
Usually the internal spring breaks around the 60k mark on the Accords with the K24. The one used in the Civic prob isn't much different. Those pictures made the car look twice as nice as I was picturing. I was thinking a Civic sedan.
gathermewool
Site Donor 2023
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Oh, and when you do transfer ownership of the car, hire a lawyer for an hour to come out and draft a bill of sale that indicates that the car is being transferred as is with no written or implied warranties whatsoever and that you are to be heretoforth held harmless for any damages (legalese) that might be of, or related to, the vehicle in question. Get them to hire a lawyer as well so that you have one lawyer and they have one lawyer too. That way, their lawyer will explain the bill of sale, now a bonafide pseudolegal instrument, to them in a way that cannot be misinterpreted, and that the bill of sale would be absolutely bulletproof and unassailable. Sign and notarize the bill of sale, and file a copy with the court clerk and send another copy to SCOTUS as an amicus brief. Finally, take out a full-page advertisement in the local newspaper notifying the public of the existence of this document. Think of it like a trillionaire's prenuptial agreement.
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
Originally Posted By: SatinSilver
Usually the internal spring breaks around the 60k mark on the Accords with the K24. The one used in the Civic prob isn't much different. Those pictures made the car look twice as nice as I was picturing. I was thinking a Civic sedan.
I'll definitely have to check the PCV valve - would the rattle always be there or would it come and go? This only really occurs during cold-starts and is worse when the ambient temp is closer to freezing.
RE: picture. I feel bad for admitting this, but I haven't even washed or waxed the Civic yet this year. I took this with my phone, just before leaving work.
Oh, and when you do transfer ownership of the car, hire a lawyer for an hour to come out and draft a bill of sale that indicates that the car is being transferred as is with no written or implied warranties whatsoever and that you are to be heretoforth held harmless for any damages (legalese) that might be of, or related to, the vehicle in question. Get them to hire a lawyer as well so that you have one lawyer and they have one lawyer too. That way, their lawyer will explain the bill of sale, now a bonafide pseudolegal instrument, to them in a way that cannot be misinterpreted, and that the bill of sale would be absolutely bulletproof and unassailable. Sign and notarize the bill of sale, and file a copy with the court clerk and send another copy to SCOTUS as an amicus brief. Finally, take out a full-page advertisement in the local newspaper notifying the public of the existence of this document. Think of it like a trillionaire's prenuptial agreement.
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
Originally Posted By: SatinSilver
Usually the internal spring breaks around the 60k mark on the Accords with the K24. The one used in the Civic prob isn't much different. Those pictures made the car look twice as nice as I was picturing. I was thinking a Civic sedan.
I'll definitely have to check the PCV valve - would the rattle always be there or would it come and go? This only really occurs during cold-starts and is worse when the ambient temp is closer to freezing.
RE: picture. I feel bad for admitting this, but I haven't even washed or waxed the Civic yet this year. I took this with my phone, just before leaving work.
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Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
gathermewool
Site Donor 2023
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Well yes the other party (or their legal representative with power of attorney) in a two party agreement needs to be present, with their identification recorded in a bound book, for a notary to notarize anything. My suggestion to get the bill of sale notarized is just purely peace of mind stuff unless your state requires it for their purposes. Some states are weird about that. California doesn't even need a notary for a title transfer!
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Well yes the other party (or their legal representative with power of attorney) in a two party agreement needs to be present, with their identification recorded in a bound book, for a notary to notarize anything. My suggestion to get the bill of sale notarized is just purely peace of mind stuff unless your state requires it for their purposes. Some states are weird about that. California doesn't even need a notary for a title transfer!
gathermewool
Site Donor 2023
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Well yes the other party (or their legal representative with power of attorney) in a two party agreement needs to be present, with their identification recorded in a bound book, for a notary to notarize anything. My suggestion to get the bill of sale notarized is just purely peace of mind stuff unless your state requires it for their purposes. Some states are weird about that. California doesn't even need a notary for a title transfer!
Figured as much. As silly as it sounds, I've only ever had to notarize two things in my life, and each just required me, myself and I.
Neither CT nor MA require notarized bill of sale, so far as I can tell.
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I'm also trying to figure out the best way to keep my tags. I will be buying the new Subie within the next week. I will be selling the Civic to my SIL within the next couple of weeks.
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Originally Posted By: L_Sludger
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
No, yes, maybe, not sure.
I think your duty of care pretty much ends with the signed, as-is bill of sale, a notary stamp on the bill of sale might be a cherry on top if you can get it done free while you're at it.
Navy Federal notarized something for free for me a couple of years ago. The lady I'm buying my next used car from works for NFCU, too, so I wonder if she might hook me up.
I apologize for my ignorance, but wouldn't the other party (my SIL) need to be there for it to be notarized?
Well yes the other party (or their legal representative with power of attorney) in a two party agreement needs to be present, with their identification recorded in a bound book, for a notary to notarize anything. My suggestion to get the bill of sale notarized is just purely peace of mind stuff unless your state requires it for their purposes. Some states are weird about that. California doesn't even need a notary for a title transfer!
Figured as much. As silly as it sounds, I've only ever had to notarize two things in my life, and each just required me, myself and I.
Neither CT nor MA require notarized bill of sale, so far as I can tell.
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I'm also trying to figure out the best way to keep my tags. I will be buying the new Subie within the next week. I will be selling the Civic to my SIL within the next couple of weeks.
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
It isn't necessary at all, nor is a notary unless both parties aren't present. Bill of sale with as-is on it isn't needed either, all private seller sales are as-is unless otherwise stated in writing (and usually signed). You should just tell her it's as-is so there is no misunderstanding.
Why do you even feel you need a bill of sale? That's not important, the Title Transfer is important. That establishes the sale and ownership. Sign it and put the date and selling price.
You both go to the county clerk, she hands you the money (or the check clears, etc) pays fees and tax, shows proof of insurance, and you get the title transferred then.
I would not give anyone possession of a vehicle based on a bill of sale. It's questionable that someone would ask it and would make me suspicious. It needs to be registered in their name. Do not pass go until that happens. I suppose if you are setting up a payment plan it's a different matter but ugh, don't set up payment plans with family, not for a $2500 vehicle. If they can't raise that ahead of time then they can't afford another vehicle.
Is this really necessary? I was thinking a bill of sale stating "AS-IS" was sufficient. I don't think there is any presumption of liability, even if "AS-IS" isn't written in the bill of sale, right?
It isn't necessary at all, nor is a notary unless both parties aren't present. Bill of sale with as-is on it isn't needed either, all private seller sales are as-is unless otherwise stated in writing (and usually signed). You should just tell her it's as-is so there is no misunderstanding.
Why do you even feel you need a bill of sale? That's not important, the Title Transfer is important. That establishes the sale and ownership. Sign it and put the date and selling price.
You both go to the county clerk, she hands you the money (or the check clears, etc) pays fees and tax, shows proof of insurance, and you get the title transferred then.
I would not give anyone possession of a vehicle based on a bill of sale. It's questionable that someone would ask it and would make me suspicious. It needs to be registered in their name. Do not pass go until that happens. I suppose if you are setting up a payment plan it's a different matter but ugh, don't set up payment plans with family, not for a $2500 vehicle. If they can't raise that ahead of time then they can't afford another vehicle.
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I have to agree. The only way this makes sense is if your willing to let them have it for way under the book / street value. Otherwise too many issues can pop up. Good luck.
Originally Posted By: oilpsi2high
I wouldn't ever sell a car, truck, boat, etc. to a family member or even a co-worker because as soon as something goes wrong they are going to try to hold you accountable.
Unless they REALLY want the car, and if they know exactly what they're getting into (show them your post) then I wouldn't do it. If you do, be prepared to hear it the first time they have to sink money into it.
I guess it depends on the family member or co worker, but I've done this several times and all was good. Esp for a good price there is nothing to complain about.
I wouldn't ever sell a car, truck, boat, etc. to a family member or even a co-worker because as soon as something goes wrong they are going to try to hold you accountable.
Unless they REALLY want the car, and if they know exactly what they're getting into (show them your post) then I wouldn't do it. If you do, be prepared to hear it the first time they have to sink money into it.
I guess it depends on the family member or co worker, but I've done this several times and all was good. Esp for a good price there is nothing to complain about.
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