Originally Posted By: javacontour
Originally Posted By: Pop_Rivit
That's the sort of selfish attitude that I would expect from most city dwellers.
But who is being selfish? Is it the consumer who needs to make his money go as far as possible, or the hardware store charging 4x the price the big box store charges for an GFCI outlet?
There can be selfish on either side of the transaction.
Went car shopping today. I think we came to a deal at my local Toyota dealership on a Rav4 for oilBabe. But if they had wanted sticker+, we would have been over to one of the dozen or so St Louis Metro dealers.
I try to give the local merchants a shot. If they are in the ball park, I'll buy. If they are being greedy, per my judgment I realize, I'll shop elsewhere.
Most of our dining out and a good part of our grocery business is with local restaurants and regional grocers. But we also visit a few chains and Wal*Mart from time to time. Especially if we need something more than groceries. If we need cleaning supplies, paper goods, etc. Wal*Mart is usually a better deal that Schnucks or Dierbergs.
Fresh Thyme recently opened and they have good/great prices on quality items if you look. So they are a go-to option. Especially if we are looking for meat and produce.
We'll also head to St Louis and visit the Soulard market to see what they have from time to time. But these vendors are not trying to take my head off.
Now, I'll avoid Dierbergs if I'm getting cleaning supplies, etc. I don't need to pay a 25-50% premium for toilet tissue or laundry detergent. That's just insane. I'm not getting a better product for my money. I'm not getting any better service. I have the same choice to self-checkout or have someone check me out and bag my items. So what am I getting for that extra coin for a package of Tide detergent?
Speaking of selfish, my local NAPA mom 'n pop shop owners are selfish. During the Napa Gold filter sale, they brought their filter's price down to just above what Oreilly's sells their WIX's at. Hardly a "savings." If you go there without them working, you'll walk out the door with a $4 filter. This experience makes me use that store as a last resort which isn't often.
They are truly one of the last mom 'n pop stores left in town that actually sells goods so IMO it is a shape it has come to this.
We have many restaurants, barbers, bakeries, and coffee shops. Great CS, great food etc. and no large city crowds.