but to assume that a woman would not benefit from basic Self defense training against a
I would NEVER tell a Female that she can not or should not defend herself at ANY means possible against a stronger male opponent. Period.
I don't think I ever said that. I said it would take years for a women to learn...(esp against a big tough street guy)
I think they should defend and the spray can be great.
Is a gun better? That was not asked and it may not be for some.
If my wife chose not to have a gun I would rather see her with a great bear spray than a boxing lesson
Here is a page from training manual of some sprays. I added the bear-commander and Vector
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It takes time to learn Self Defense for men as well as women, there will always be someone bigger, stronger and better than everyone of us. The point is a Self Defense class along with the Pepper Spray is better than sending someone out into the street with just Pepper Spray. As I said it is very easy to have that Pepper Spray used against you. A good Self Defense class teaches common sense, and very simple and effective techniques. Taekwondo takes years to master, and is more of a Martial Art than Self Defense. A true Taekwondo school teaches a lot of Kata, which takes years to master and is not very effective in a street situation. [Some Taekwondo schools gear strictly for Self Defense, it depends on the Instructor, but that's a whole different topic]. Self Defense classes teach things like using a key or other things for a weapon, proper ways to hold a key and use a key, a pen, or Pepper Spray for that matter. The proper way to enter and exit a car, where to park a car, and a buddy system to help avoid situations, things that can be learned in 10 weeks vs. 10 years. Is a 100 lb woman going to beat Mike Tyson after 10 weeks of training? Nope, will she become a Master or Instructor? Nope. Will she learn how to avoid a situation, be more relaxed and deploy that Pepper Spay, or some other means of defending herself? Yes. Talk to someone who actually teaches one of these classes, or took one you might be surprised.
As you noticed I'm not against Bear Spray or guns, but learning proper use of the weapons is a smart thing to do, and having some Self Defense training and Street Survival skills is a big help too.
Bill it sounds like your daughter was taught well, hopefully she's learned enough to avoid a situation, and if she's ever attacked she's had the training to use the spray effectively. That's what a good basic SD class is all about, she'll fare better than a women with no training at all.