You're right, they can't be installed wrong because of the tang on the end of the bearing. Sounds like both haves were the same since there is no real functional purpose to have a hole in the bearing on the rod cap. MAHLE probably did it that way to ensue the oil squirter feed hole on the rod side wasn't covered up if only one half had the hole.
Did the original bearings also have a hole in both halves like the MAHLE bearings, or just one half?
So the failure you saw on the old bearings around the hole is most likely fatigue like some have mentioned. That area is in a pretty high pressure area of the supporting oil film wedge in bearing during the down stroke, so the idea is that high internal bearing pressure on the down stroke forces the most oil up through the squirter passage in the rod base.