First of all, you need to deal with facts, not emotions. No one builds reactors like Chernobyl. You just can't compare any modern operating reactor to Chernobyl. Not built in the last 30 years. If you don't understand why, you need to educate yourself first.
No reactor built in the USA, France or Japan currently producing electricity for a utility is built like Chernobyl. Period.
Second, comparing a nuclear reactor, generating electricity and hot water to an oil refinery generating asphalt, gasoline, light & heavy hydrocarbons, etc. is apples vs. oranges. Oil refineries don't produce electricity for a utility.
Stop comparing Japan to Chernobyl. More apples vs.....oranges isn't even fair.
Again I reject your premis re: chernobyl to oil refinery. Completely different animals, species, phylum, genus, etc. Not to slight oil refineries though. Licensed Chem E's are the ones that design & operate them. When a cat cracker goes though, it sure makes a loud noise and shatters a lot of windows.....
There is a difference between organic chemistry and nuclear chemistry.
Your response indicates you don't realize how much energy is still remaining in 'nuclear waste'! As if it's exhausted. Nothing could be further from the truth. Burying it BEFORE reprocessing it IS stupid, as there is a huge amount of energy being wasted otherwise. The French know this and have been reprocessing their waste for over 30 years now.
You need to watch the PBS special done in the 90's on nuclear power. Stainless steel??? They did numerous tests on glass-casts back then. Burned them. Crashed them on trains. The reporter & engineer are standing right next to one, with the film rolling. Go watch it on-line.
Lastly, if you're truly worried about future generations, 'the children' as the media likes to put it, they're already screwed because of the idiots in Washington, not from nuclear power.
You really don't get it, do you?