I'm in the same boat. We used VRBO ONE TIME to rent a house in Venice FL about 9 years ago. It turned into a fiasco where the owner would drive by multiple times a day and send me texts/emails telling us everything we were doing wrong. This was Christmas time, me, my wife and my MIL were there most of the time. Later in the week, my BIL and his wife showed up and I think another BIL was there one night. Granted, they can make a neat house look like a landfill with all their cans, bottles and single-serve food containers (they are "greenies", BTW), but we kept the place up. Yes, after a week in a 5-bedroom, 3-bath house, there were lots of linens to be done but we cleaned the kitchen and the rest of the house and put all the garbage out. Yes, after a week and ~5 people there, there was a lot of garbage.
The owner claimed we scratched her glass-top stove and it was irreplaceable. It was going to cost $3K+, so she was keeping our $600 deposit.
I'll tell ya how bad it was - the owner sent me an email and pictures 10 minutes after we left describing all the horror we inflicted and the statement about the stove and deposit. 10 minutes.