55, I feel for you. I've had back pain for the better part of 20 years. Threw my back out so bad in October of '04, I was nearly vomiting at the pain.
I couldn't even walk to the kitchen, had to crawl. Going to the bathroom was bad, trying to sit while going...well....was excruciating... I pray to *** that I never have to experience that kind of pain.
Of course, the wife was helpful, as usual. As I layed on the couch trying not to vomit from the pain, she just said "aw, c'mon, it's not THAT bad! I gave birth to two children!". That really helped me tons.
Guess who had to put the kids to bed, upstairs? Yep, she wouldn't do it with regularity. Took me 3 weeks to convince her to mow the lawn...only after she saw the neighbor lady cutting her lawn. And she only did half of it. Guess who cut the other half of the lawn??
Whatever you do, OMG, don't mow the lawn for at least 8 weeks. I took lotsa prescribed pain killers that made me real dizzy just to reduce the pain the few nights after that. I felt like a useless zombie. And I never watched that much TV at 3am.
Back pain is the worst. Even worse when the spouse won't step up to the plate and take over responsibilities until the other half is well enough. I'm am SO glad that whole period of life is no longer in the rear-view mirror. Save for the leg numbness I get every so often.
I hope you get well and never, ever, have to deal with that pain ever again!
I couldn't even walk to the kitchen, had to crawl. Going to the bathroom was bad, trying to sit while going...well....was excruciating... I pray to *** that I never have to experience that kind of pain.
Of course, the wife was helpful, as usual. As I layed on the couch trying not to vomit from the pain, she just said "aw, c'mon, it's not THAT bad! I gave birth to two children!". That really helped me tons.


Back pain is the worst. Even worse when the spouse won't step up to the plate and take over responsibilities until the other half is well enough. I'm am SO glad that whole period of life is no longer in the rear-view mirror. Save for the leg numbness I get every so often.
I hope you get well and never, ever, have to deal with that pain ever again!