Thanks for the responses guys. Yes it is a mustang, wish it was a Ford GT. I am confussed now because half of you are saying its normal and half are saying its not. But I guess we can all agree that if it has any metal in the filter next time that something is wrong. It seems like the engine probably shed this metal at the beginning of this oil's life and stopped a little while before this change. The reason I think this is true is because there was absolutely no metal in the oil pan oil. I ran a small sample through a microfiber towl and it showed nothing. I think if it were still going on it would have metal in all of the oil.
Regradless, this sucks. If that metal is from the bearings, it ran through the entire rest of the engine before being filtered out. My worst fear is that it keeps spitting out metal and I take the car and the "evidence" to the dealer and they say its not broke so they arent going to fix it. Is metal in the oil reason enough for a new engine?
Thanks for any more thoughts on the matter.