VW/AUDI filters are of this like bypass rating. 3/4-16 thread too. They have, at least those that I've seen the internals of, wire reinforced media (assumed) to withstand the high differential.
I have yet to reason why they spec such a high bypass threshold. An engine is an engine and flow is flow. The pressures are nothing out of whack with other engines (perhaps on the high side). I would say that for me to make sense out of the practice, the pump relief limit would have to be extreme (like 100 psi in your case due to your indicated readings of 75-87 - assumed warm) ..otherwise, when cold, you can surely be reducing oil flow substantially.
This is a German thing ..yet I don't get it.
70mm, if I did the math right, falls into the 2.8 range of gaskets.
Here's a VW/Audi filter in WIX
Part Number: 51393
UPC Number: 765809513938
Principal Application: Audi (71-06), Volkswagen (96-05), Lotus (71-74)
All Applications
Style: Spin-On Lube Filter
Service: Lube
Type: Full Flow
Media: Paper
Height: 4.820
Outer Diameter Top: 3.020
Outer Diameter Bottom: Closed
Thread Size: 3/4-16
By-Pass Valve Setting-PSI: 33
Anti-Drain Back Valve: Yes
Burst Pressure-PSI: 410
Max Flow Rate: 7-9 GPM
Nominal Micron Rating: 28
Gasket Diameters
Number O.D. I.D. Thk.
Attached 2.800 2.450 0.230