I opted out of the heat pump promotion by the local REA co-op fourteen years ago and went with electric heat. All the other seven houses on the block were built with heat pumps. Saw the local HVAC guy make many visits up and down the street to fix heat pump problems. Never had to have him look at my Rheem/Ruud electric furnace/ac. Did the same on the house we just completed but went with another brand.
Are heat pumps that power hungry? IMO, electric heat is very expensive. The exception was last winter when propane was way more expensive.
I would take propane any day over electric, it produces a warmer heat, and you can plumb in a propane kitchen stove, buy the right furnace and it will work with no electric power(like ice storms).
I hate electric, just take one of your summer monthly bills, and quadruple it. That's what it's like heating with electric.
...then you loose power during ice storm, out comes the kerosene heaters/wood stove.