I’ve used Fumoto valves on my Subaru, Ford, and a Pontiac; they are a real time saver and you don’t have to worry about stripping out the plug. Some folk use a retention clip but I haven’t and I have a total of around 600K of miles on my three valves and haven’t had any dripping or accidental opening issues. Most of complaints of leaks are from double gasketing during installation or not using the proper crush washer (they come with the proper one).
On my Toyota, I installed a Stahlbus valve which I’m liking quite a bit. They are lower profile than the Fumoto valves and do not have the chance of an accidental opening.
As for the complaints of slowness, I can drain a 5.3 quart sump in about 1.5 - 2 minutes with either the Stahlbus or Fumoto valves. I just take that time to go change the oil filter.