It is a problem with some engines, not only limited to extended oil change intervals, although they certainly don't help. One Honda Accord 1.5L turbo that I rented gained almost a quart of oil during my week long rental. It was warm out, I drove it on the highway quite a bit, and yet the oil level increased.
The oil is neither tolerant or intolerant of the fuel dilution. However, the oil's viscosity will be affected. Would I be concerned if the Accord was my car? Of course! I'd probably use a 5W-30 oil instead of the 0W-20, I would also change the oil frequently.
Yes the fuel evaporates, at some rate. Clearly, the Honda's rate of evaporation was insufficient for the crankcase filling "blowby". But even if it evaporates at a high rate, there are remnants of the fuel circulating in the oil. The oil change is the only way to remove those contaminates.
There is a reason certain engines are experiencing early timing/balancer chain failures. Low viscosity is chief among them.