Thanks for your reply. A few responses are needed here by me.
LOL about the crush on the service writer. I am about to celebrate my 25th wedding anniversary.
On the Odyclub.com forum, the transmission issues were discussed, the consensus seemed to be: If you change your ATF fluid every 15,000 miles you're golden (meaning you won't ever have transmission issues in the 2005 to 2007 Odysseys if you do the ATF drain/fill every 15k miles).
Regarding the oil changes, as I mentioned in the post, about 2 years ago I switched to lower priced oil and filters.
I kept an accurate list of all repairs. Some of the more pricy repairs were the timing belt, water pump, tensionser, camshaft seals.
Also the power sliding doors were quite expensive to maintain as other mechanics don't want to touch them, they all say take it to Honda. I had various repairs done to the sliding doors over those 10 years, including new motors, latches, and several other parts.
The Honda dealer I was using would mark up the parts about 150% if you let the service department order the parts, so I got their permission to actually go to the parts counter at the same dealership directly and order the parts to eliminate that extra markup.
But still each service visit averaged $1,000 per sliding door. (with about 2 repairs per sliding door over that time = $2,000 * 2 = $4,000 just to keep the sliding doors working perfectly. Other expensive repairs were new rotors for all 4 wheels (3 times), new brake calipers, leaks in the rear hatch and sun roof, engine mounts, air conditioner compressor and condensor failed, power steering pump failed, and alternator failed. Several other repairs and maintenenace such as PCV valve replacements, suspension parts, etc.
I really liked the van, and it had the aeura of Japanese reliability, but these vans as nice as they are, are not frugal vehicles.
The total of all the repairs and maintenance over 10 years totaled close to $20,000.
I was fortunate with the used car market still being pricy, and was able to sell the van for $5,200. I had paid $13,500 for it back in 2013.
Honestly, I'm looking at Consumer Reports magazine's car reliability ratings.
I'm thinking about migrating to Toyota Corolla's in the future, as I just want a vehicle that has a low cost of ownership.
So your costs come to $27,300 over 10 years. Roughly $230 a month.
That's not bad. Knock out those doors from the equation it would have been around $23k. Going to an Indy would have reduced those costs another $6k and doing the basics yourself would have saved roughly $2k.
$15k over 10 years is about $125 a month. Get a 2016 Corolla with about 50k miles for $12900 that still has the serviceable 4-speed automatic transmission (L trim) and do the following.
Walmart pit crew oil change every 5k miles ($25, 24 times, $600)
Transmission drain and fill every 30k (DIY: $20, 5 times.$100 total)
Buy air filter and cabin air filter in bulk at Rockauto ($100 for 120k miles)
Power steering and brake fluid at Walmart ($20)
Automotive fluid extractor pump for removing those fluids (DIY: $10)
Front Brake Parts (1 pair of rotors, 3 brake pads : $100)
Rear Brake Parts (1 pair of rotors, 2 drum brake sets) $80
It would cost at most $100 to have those brakes installed at a shop. So that's $400.
Two sets of tires at Discount Tire or Walmart : $800 ($160 less if you coupled local price matches with rebates that are done during most holidays)
So this would be roughly $2000 over 10 years if we assume no repairs which, for a Corolla in a rust-free climate with smooth roads is entirely possible. Whether you need to replace a compressor, alternator, or starter is entirely a role of the dice depending on the type of driving you do and where you drive it.
Finally get a Shop Your Way card that offers between 5% to 10% off of gas. Or get a Costco membership. Hate Costco? Get Sam's Club. Sometimes they are giving those away for nearly free.
Oh! Batteries! Walmart has basic ones for $70 and the Maxx for around $120. You'll need two of those over 10 years. Or you can find out which auto parts stores sell used batteries and get a 'second' which is a store brand battery that didn't sell after six months, but was kept in a temperature controlled environment the whole time. Pretty much a brand new battery. They cost $46.
BTW, the only reason why I took such a deep dive on this is because I have a 2016 Toyota Corolla in my inventory right now. Yesterday our dealership sold a 2006 Corolla w/ 136k miles for $5000 to an older couple that drove four hours to buy it.
I love buying and selling Corollas. If I could find enough Toyotas I wouldn't buy any other brand.
https://atlanta.craigslist.org/wat/ctd/d/powder-springs-2016-toyota-corolla-only/7757955992.html