Call me crazy but I think I like how it sits as it is, rims and all, apart from the rear tail lamps. Looking at the photos again, I dare say it looks about as high as current trucks do.
Looks good...not sagging in the back. I see lifted 4x4's all the time and it seems most are way lower in the back and I don't understand how they can go around looking like that. I'd want equal lift so that the headlights aren't aimed at the clouds.
As you said, yours looks like a 4x4 now and you did good!