First off- Hello! Nice forum! Lurking around for lubrication info proved to be very good reading.
Sportsters-Everybody has their personal opinions so here's mine...
If you like it. Ride it.
I'm 51, 6'2", 190 lbs.Started dirt riding when I was 11, owned/rode street bikes of all kinds since 16,raced Desert,Motocross and in my insane days dabbled a bit with speedway bikes and flattrackers.
I just bought a commute bike to get through SoCal traffic,a 2007 Night-"something" which is the XL1200N Nightster. You can view it on Harley's webpage here
http://www.harley-davidson.com/wcm/Conte...mp;swffamily=sp
Stupid name actually, but not exactly what pops into my mind as a "chick bike". It has a lot of GO, Whoa, and not a lot of trinkets to polish. Suits me fine for a street bike.
Oddly enough, it even has good manners in the twisty stuff at speed.The suspension is short and it will slap you in the [censored] once in awhile if you're not paying attention. However I don't recommend daydreaming while operating a motorcycle anyway so that can actually be considered a safety feature.
There's my $.02 from my experience. I hope to learn alot from you folks and hopefully participate meaningfully at some point in the future.