Huh, I wonder why BMW has a different part number for the differential RTV if they are all the same?
Because BMW uses a special RTV tailored to each component your working on, they over complicate everything and are anal retentive with their engineering specs, they are usually over engineered and complicated, but even with the engineering involved their failures are usually epic in nature and the costs are extremely high for parts and repair times. Many of the perfectly engineered parts design are prone to failure, some being absolutely guaranteed to occur at a certain mileage. Some autos have electronic issues that are nightmares to diagnose and repair. The engine failed in my 07 325ci.. It required complete replacement.
If it was an airplane I could see using specialized RTV for each fluid involved, because even a .5% chance of a "all purpose" RTV having a failure or weakened by the oil involved, is still a high chance if your altitude is on the line.
Reality is on an automobile it will do just fine. If the temperature range of the RTV is not suitable for the application then a different product is used. The black stuff's temperature range is from -65f - 500f, so its not suitable for exhaust manifolds, but they make stuff that is.
If the RTV was being exposed to an corrosive liquid or acidic liquid I would then use the specially formulated sealant. But for 22+ years I've been using the RTV black formula on every liquid the car has without any failure, leak, or visual sign of concern. I have never had a diff seal leak a single drop of fluid, and I have RTV over 22 years old on a few cars and equipment I own.
The custom tailored trans, diff or coolant RTV's are just a sales pitch. If I ever heard a report that a component needed an exactly designed RTV sealant than obviously I would use it. But if can be used on an oil pan exposed to high temperature oil why not the diff? Yes, different formulations of each, I get it. In the real world though its fine.
If I ever experience the failure of the sealant involved with a trans, oil pan, transfer case, or diff oil, than I would start changing my tune.