I would say Mercon V (if that what is on the chart). Here is my reasoning- Ford does not want to pay for warranty claims, so I go by what they say, especially if the advice is a few years old.
You can't go wrong with quality MV if its Ford approved for your application. The additives are for the quick lube places that keep one fluid for all cars. The dealer MUST use what ford suggests, no matter what the age of the car. If the oil goes for analysis and it is determined something else is used, and there is a failure, there could be liability on the part of the dealership. You could also add lubeguard to MV, I've done and have over 50K miles on some very high mileage trans. Lubeguard is one additive that could be used as a preventative, but it is still optional. I know a trans builder here that puts a bottle in at every service and rebuild.