Nothing wrong with your writings, Mola! I realize that Ca sulfonate greases were not that off the shell available ten years ago. By now, they continue to be fairly uncommon in Europe.
Just to stretch your patience I would like you to look at Lubrizol's slide 16, "Typical Calcium Sulfonate Grease Properties Without additional additives" and at:
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Notice, it says "This grease contains no additives and the extreme pressure properties arise from the soap structure."
So, these greases can do a lot even without Zn/P/S. IMO, the absence of strong EP additives is "nice" in applications where undesired surface reaction and fatigue are of concern. What that means on the bottom line and whether other thickeners shall be banned from such applications is nothing I want to decide!
From what I understand, the CaCO3 micelles in the detergent are a lot smaller than those in the gelled Ca sulfonate grease. And as Tempest pointed out, the grease has a much higher concentration of them.
The real question is, why not make a "Ca-sulfonate-grease-like oil" (minus the thickening effect)?
A farmkid in his late 20's feels a need to close this "gap". Please help him.