I know it has been a couple years between posts but some thoughts.....Yo are really taking her to the cleaners for stuff that ‘might’ fail, eh?
Rad - these can last the life of the vehicle. If no leaks or seeps, why replace?
Injectors - these can also last the life of the vehicle. If no loss of performance, no need to touch.
Slight oil seep - try tightening the cover, or maybe a hm oil. If not actually dripping, will not cause a problem.
Spark plugs - are they actually due? Some are designed to go 80k.
But, you work for a dealership. You guys are pretty bad for scaring people about what might become a problem.
I manage a retail garage for a living, and I pride myself on only repairing for customers what needs to be done.
If the coolant fluid was timely replaced, I'd keep using the old rad. But, I know running it for 10 years and slightly under 100k is a formula for radiator failure. We don't know if the prior owner stayed on top of coolant drains and flushes.
Fuel injectors actually get clogged or otherwise "interfered with" well before death, around 100k. I know for a fact my mom's Matrix had a tedious idle relearn by that time and was running lean. Probably a combo of injector and fuel pump already deviating from factory new performance.
The fuel pump is also nearing its time to die given the fuel filter(not the sock) is not serviceable.