Weird, I've NEVER experienced anything like you mention. I usually only make a few dozen transaction/year, but I've never had an issue buying.
I use PayPal WAY less often to receive payments, but haven't had any problem getting small amounts (usually less than $100) transferred pretty quickly.
Maybe you were dealing with large sums, but for most of us who use it as an added layer of protection over our CC's it has worked well for everyday purchases.
I don't have anything good nor bad to say about Ebay. I've always felt it to be one level above Craigslist on the sketchiness scale, but I don't have anything to back that up but one bad experience where I eventually got my money back....thanks to Paypal, actually.
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Using it start and cancel a recurring payment to a place like BITOG? I think PayPal is ideal. If I want to stop, I simply go to Paypal and cancel the recurring payment. Idiot-proof.
I had PayPal ohhh... 2000-"2011"
2011 ? My Ebay got shut down, out of the blue, no reason given.
EBAY customer support doesn't exist
My PayPal was linked to it
I was selling about three things a month
I was "retronrex" That username is GONE
I feel shady things were happening, that was only the start of bad experiences.
I of course am mad.. I was doing great on EBAY but like know I just buy, don't put up ads anymore.
I had a group of people doing a whole bunch of character assa... you know what, no. But I was for sure "targeted."
Similar to when people get de-platformed..
I *THINK* I can still use it but only through family member account.
As to using it to pay... I'd rather just enter in my card number now.
Hope this helps, as I would struggle to explain why my experience wasn't good beyond these broad strokes and I've since found better options amyway...