So let's get some real world perspective here.
I had a 2017 civic, great car, no oil dilution, that was more of an early CRV thing. It was pretty much resolved after the first few years in the CRV, and didn't affect a huge number of vehicles. Honda recalled some early 1.5s due to bad fuel injectors, this was one causes of the fuel dilution.
The CVT has been a pretty good transmission, I'm on several honda forums and not much is posted about problems with them, and they've been around for a long time in other models. Some people just hate CVTs, I've had 4 of them with no problems, and for a car they work very well.
I went with a 2016 CRV because it didn't have a turbo, after 2019 the 1.5 turbo in the CRV has been very good.
My Civic averaged 42mpg, sold it my brother in law because I went back to driving a company car, he loves it.