Originally Posted By: bigdreama
Originally Posted By: TallPaul
10% tip? Wasn't that from the 70s? I thought today's standard was 15%, with 20% for great service.
My math is getting worse with age.
I figured someone would question that since 20% is the new 15%.
I think they were just trying to make the calculation easier.
Until recently, I've been guilty of leaving 20%+ for most meals. I had a conversation with a friend one day, and now I've decided it should be based on how friendly, competent an efficient the wait-person is, how much I enjoyed my meal and, to great extent, how much the meal cost. At a diner I'll tip 20%+ because they're on their feet all day, deal with obnoxious people - no more than most wait-staff, though, I guess - and the bills are usually very small. At an expensive restaurant, however, it doesn't always make sense to leave a $20 tip for a couple of appetizers, two meals and a couple of drinks. I realize there are fewer overall customers in an expensive restaurant compared to a seat 'em, feed 'em, and beat 'em out the door kind of restaurant, but how much is a service really worth?
I still tend to leave between 15% and 20% for good service, but have been learning that less is acceptable for poor service. My dad and I left a quarter and a breath mint at a Golden Corral one Saturday morning when the waitress completely ignored us for the half hour we were there; all the while serving other customers around us.
I was treated like a stuck up rich kid one night by a middle-aged server at a relatively fancy restaurant. Maybe he'd been stiffed or poorly tipped in the past by youngins, and had no idea that I planned to leave a good tip, but that didn't excuse his attitude nor his refilling the older couple's around us' drinks while ignoring our empty glasses. 10% seemed like a fitting, and easy tip to calculate, in that case.