Yes, the less the spread, the better, although this isn't as much an issue as it was in decades past. More spread typically requires more polymers to achieve same, which can burn and shear. A 10w-30 would be helpful in summer, although not required. Johnny is correct that the 5w would be appropriate for your winters, while the 10w would certainly not. Bulk oils are almost always -- if not always -- identical to bottled oils.