We're an eccentric bunch here alright but we've always got time to spend with you and I look forward to hearing from you again. You're a member of an "oil rich" family you see.....
Use this life lesson as a chance to make yourself stronger. Focus on what is really important (hint: oil and filters aren't), and you'll turn the "bad" times into an opportunity to better yourself.
You're in my prayers. Wishing the best for you. Tough times bring out our true nature and know that when you get through this you will be stronger. Take care.