Hello ya'll.....
I have a 2012 BMW 535i, just turned over 50,000 miles. Since I bought it used at 28k, from a Mercedes Benz Dealership, it began its life of under delivering the driving experience I thought I was going to have based on my previous BMW vehicles. The main issue in the beginning was a rough idle, the fix for that was to raise the engine rpm's through ISTA D or A software. Idle is smoother now, but the car has also shown signs of rough shifting. Downshifting from 2nd to 1st at times feels like I am getting rear ended, it sort of stutters for a split second then slams into gear. Also, when taking off from a stop, there is a delay or dead spot, then all of a sudden the car jerks into gear, completely an issue and not safe IMO. I would say its much worse when cold, but still present when fully warmed up. I have been told by more than one shop that the fluid level and quality was fine, and if there are not any trouble codes there isnt much they would/could do. I have had my software checked, they say it is up to date, they have reset transmission values more than once, all symptoms seem to eventually return the same or worse.
From the beginning, I read/thought there was something wrong with my NIC (Neutral Idle Control), but the last year or so I have been leaning towards sticking/failing solenoid valves. I am not sure if just the solenoids are available for this shiftbox, as I have heard they have to buy the entire mechatronics unit for something like $2500, I am trying to avoid this.