Geez, I thought I was the only one that felt this way. Have plenty of the ugly guns, but love shooting my M&Ps more

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My wife has no interest in shooting as a hobby, nor does she do well with "complexities" that she has to remember to do as with an auto. She also has not much upper body or hand strength and limp wrists most 9mms of mine she has shot. Under stress, it's gonna be point and shoot. My first carry pistol that I was issued 42 years ago fits the bill and she not only likes it, but can handle/shoot it pretty well. I'd say we are way ahead of the game with this choice for her.
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One thing to bear in mind if choosing a used G19 is the Gen 3s, 4s, and 5s are in high demand right now due to Glock's change to the V/Gen 6. If bargain hunting for a solid mid size auto, you can get good deals on the M&P 2.0s, Caniks, and even the RXM.