My choice is Purolator P1 (blue media) or Fram Tough Guard (yellow media) when available. They are lightly oiled but still regular paper media. Not enough oil to damage a MAF, but still helps with the filtering.
When the above is not available, I try to find the country of origin of regular brand filters and choose among the best such available.
But unfortunately for you, there is no TG or P1 air filter made for your car, and all the others are Chinese or Korean. So for your TL, just get the OEM air filter.
Many recent Honda air filters are oiled like the TG and P1.