Hello again,
I am surprised at myself for not replying here 4.5 years ago thanking everyone for their input. (So... thanks!!) I'm happy to report that my engine has indeed survived its 4 harsh winters so far.
Hats off to the prophetic users here who anticipated a short lived battery. It died hard on a cold winter morning of its 4th winter after a rather short trip around town. No amount of boosting helped, to illustrate how bad it was, my HUD barely lit up even while I had booster cables connected to a running car and it was reporting all sorts of random engine/transmission issues. It's interesting because it wasn't the first cold snap of the season that killed it, but rather the first short trip I made in those temps. Apparently my previous 30 minute highway commutes were just enough to top up its charge each way. Also worth noting that my car is parked outside. Oh the humanity!
The infotainment has indeed been buggy, even after the dealer updated its firmware it would sometimes not boot up, requiring a complete power cycle of the entire car. Other than that, various parts of the interior trim makes lots of jiggling/rattling sounds as I drive. A bit disappointing considering this is a "sub-luxury" car but oh well. At least the engine appears to be rock solid. But I digress...
Probably to the community's chagrin, after my OP I opted to operate at "minimum OEM warranty compliance mode" and opted for conventional 5w30 changes every 6 months (since I never surpassed 6k miles during those periods.) I would get whatever's on sale/the cheapest, as long as it meets rating, so I've fed my car a variety of brands like Pennzoil, Quaker, Castrol, but mostly Canadian tire motomaster branded dino (apparently it's made by Shell.) As for filters I predominantly used Motomaster OE Plus (apparently similar to Fram TG,) or better.
I am legitimately curious if any measurable wear occurred on my engine as a result of this. I haven't done any UOAs but would doing one now give me any useful info? Or will it only show the wear that occurred since my last oil change? I am supposed to replace my spark plugs soon, so if I'm feeling up for it I might measure cylinder compression while I'm at it. Anything else I can check to gauge engine wear?
As for the future, since my warranty will be up soon, I plan to go for 6K OCIs, regardless of how much time elapses, using a "standard" full synthetic 5w30 like the Pennzoil Platinum (or Motomaster synthetic lol.) Reading around here I hear the 3.6 is very easy on oil. I am aware of at least one user here that has been able to pull off a 10K OCI with this engine no problems. But would love to hear any other comments or pointers regarding this.