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One thing that even I never saw--my buddy moved to SC, and his house in FLA was unsold for more than 6 mos.Way too many variables for a blanket statement. Over the years I have been used up and rarely has anyone ever reciprocated 100% of what I did for them. Some friends I dont mind, others I ignore. Its a skill you develop over years and like many lessons in life the painful ones are the ones you learn the best.
He said everyone including direct relatives wanted to borrow it as they were walking distance to the ocean. BUT NOT A SINGLE PERSON OFFERED TO PAY ONE CENT TOWARDS THE UTILITIES THEY CONSUMED WHILE USING THE HOUSE.
I had a faux friend as you describe--always contacted me about sports teams, advice on cars, hvac, finances. Pics of an exciting vacation sorta bragging.
August 2021 I said wow haven't heard from you in ages, since we last talked my wife left me, took my son, and came back.
Do you think he asked oh what happened, how you doing, etc.?
I'm telling you those people who are around when you experience a life event, those are your friends.