We live on a farm. Love, enjoy, and work in the outdoors every single day. Our entire life involves mess. Heck, my wife once transported a pig to the butcher in the backseat (removed) of our Chevy Celebrity. Enough said.
I prefer a moderate amount of orderliness indoors and inside/outside the car, which gets washed at least twice a year when I do a thorough detailing. As much as my OCD is, I am so glad my life no longer revolves around it. Been there, done that. No one can judge or convey to others about their chosen, sometimes misplaced values. Recognizing the important aspects of life is one of the very few benefits of old age.................wisdom.
Moderately clean inside/outside of car (no preference) = gute enuff.